They haven't even gone on a date. Seriously, though, it does. What people might think of you as a couple is just one of many factors that go into deciding whether to pursue a specific relationship. Buunk, B. If you really need to be older than your lady, just wait until you're 32 and start hitting on the 31 year olds.
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Granted, I've dated people where there was a MUCH bigger age difference than this, so maybe my perspective is slightly different to other people's.
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My question is regardless of your concerns, how is anyone even going to know you are dating a 31 year old unless you tell them? You seem to think that she likes you, but do you like her? I think we can all agree that this is stupid and move on. As long as celebrities are walking around with guys half their age, I don't see any problem.